However, “you can use your hands to press it down for even
D I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition
In case you didn’t know, Lovehoney has one of the biggest sex toy collections we’ve ever seen. Lovehoney’s main forté is sex toys, but you can also spot its impressive stash of lingerie and accessories like lube and bondage gear. “Easy to use, especially for people who may struggle to hold on to small objects or other sex toys, this vibe slips right over the tip of your finger,” says Balestrieri.
Designed for those with a clitoris, the Eva “is held snugly in place by flexible wings that tuck under the labia,” explains Denyer. However, “you can use your hands to press it down for even more power if you like,” advises Weiss. For such a small package, it packs a lot of features with five speeds, three vibration patterns and a fully waterproof design (up to three feet). The unique shape allows you to experiment with different types of stimulation, and the squishy feeling of the silicone makes it more comfortable against your body than a rigid plastic vibrator — trust me. This uses air technology for a suction-like effect, similar to what you may enjoy during oral partner sex.
Searching for specific product reviews or experiences shared by users online can help you make an informed decision based on others’ experiences. Like the Hitachi, Le Wand has a “wave” button to cycle through the patterns, but it has a plus and minus button to change the speed (also, the plus button serves as “on” while minus serves as “off”). Similar to the other toys, Le Wand has both vibration and pulsing available, just with more variety in terms of the quickness and intensity of the pulses — these patterns are all laid out in Le Wand’s user guide.
The unique sloping side scored extra points for its ability to target the G-spot, while the bunny ears were positioned in just the right spot to stimulate the clitoris. Wands expertly deliver vibrations to a wide surface area—but if you’ve got a hankering for the more pinpointed stimulation that a tongue or clitoral vibrator can offer, consider the Le Wand Flick. “Flick is an attachment that turns your massager into a flickering , tongue-mimicking tease machine,” says Box.
It features the iconic rose clitoral design with a new insertable stem for internal stimulation. Made from the brand’s signature soft silicone, it combines classic suction with a firm yet flexible stem. You can guide your partner’s hand to your hot spots, or simply use the toy on yourself. If they see how much you’re enjoying yourself, they will likely be open to including sex toys as part of the regular routine.
Waterproof and app-enabled, it offers two motors and two control tracks to control both the clitoral stimulator and G-spot stimulation. And while you might have found your way around your own clitoris (or guided a few partners through the Do’s and Don’ts), it’s totally normal for the clit to take a bit of time to reach full arousal. “Remember that it takes, on average, minutes of stimulation and foreplay before a woman is fully aroused,” Serra says. Vibe uses UltraWave Vibration viberator, which “combines low-frequency, rumbly vibrations with 10 powerful, harmonic resonances,” the brand explains. The stimulation is described as intense but gentle, and the whole experience should be smooth and sexy without ever crossing the line into too much. Vibe also offers three autopilot modes that last for 10 minutes each, letting you take a full journey into pleasure.
It’s a reliable vibrator with an unassuming yet modern look, and it’s never let me down. This toy is a clit sucker, meaning that it provides suction stimulation for pleasure as opposed to vibration. As I stated in my review of BuzzFeed’s Air Vibe, I’m not a huge fan of clit suckers.